we all need to inform our world- our communities - our nursing staff etc etc

to please remove the statement -incompatible with life -

None of us know how long we will live and I know our daughter Melissa had lots of fun and lots of giggles during her 9 years with us.  Yes it was hard and at times extremly stressful but looking back it was an amazing time and such a learning about life.  What is important?? we need to ask ourselves.

I know that honestly my family and children are very precious.  A statement such as that is not helpful when you are cradling your precious wee one - it needs to be amended.