sharing facts from our Paediatrician
Summary of Melissa’s needs when she was aged 7
As written by her Paediatrician
Melissa has Trisomy 18 with a number of medical problems.
Congenital heart disease – she has never had congestive failure or definite central cyanosis but does have clinical signs of pulmonary hypertension, a systolic thrill and a pansystolic murmur without any mid diastolic murmur or 3rd heart sound. Previous ECG showed a VSD but the most recent echo suggested there was some over-riding the aorta. No surgery is contemplated because she is asymptomatic from the cardiac point of view and it would be hazardous.
Difficult feeding and slow weight gain (although satisfactory for children with Trisomy 18).
Recurrent coughing and choking episodes – it is hard to be sure whether these are mechanical, infective or related to allergies. Melissa is difficult to cope with when she gets unwell as her food and fluid intake diminish.
We are happy for Melissa to be admitted to Ward 3 at any time but this isn’t necessarily helpful for Josie as she is much more skilled at giving the meticulous nursing acre that Melissa requires, than anyone else could be.
🙂 Belated Christmas wishes to everyone -I still find it a difficult time. Family is so important and there is little one can say - however our memories are so special and with us for ever!
Also I do hope 2019 is a great year for everyone!
Just sharing some feelings. Life changed me forever after the life and passing of our beautiful daughter Melissa.....maybe as I get older I understand more - not sure about that! But I know I see things differently from our experience, my values are different from a lot of our friends. Memories are still very clear and even sometimes a conversation can be difficult with someone who does not really know me. Living disability and with a fragile hold on life does change things and I feel I am still trying to understand that.
Today was a sad day as well as a celebration of a very special young girl. Aged 11 and Brennagh has blessed so many people by her short life, she has taught many about the true meaning of what is important in life. I was honoured to attend her service and celebration of her life....
Our Trisomy children are here I am sure to teach and educate - they are so special and have a huge impact on those who have time to spend with them.
A day full of special memories.